Sunday, May 06, 2007

What do you look at when you see a girl ?

                           This was the first question posed to me by one of my Seniors in my ragging session when i initially joined Osmania University College of Engineering for my Engineering. Well, i guess some of us know that there are always somethings that need to be sensored while putting it outside... no wonder, seniors and ragging sessions are meant to be giving them fun and blast with the juniors... and no guy wants to tell it outside.. Typically what do guys look in a girl? Be it Forum mall or Bangalore Central or Inox or Brigade or your good old college... The girls face, her dress and overall attire.... Why is it obvious that gilrs take a longer time in "Getting Ready" to go out.. be it college, work, shopping or just like that... hmm.. they want to look good for many reasons.. now let me cross question? What do girls look when they look at guys? The way guys dress up? Their hair style? Shoe? I dont know - May be girls should know :) Anyways, The mentor of Communication training pointed this out.. When you talk to a female gender where do you have to look at her? He told, typically female gender will feel very conscious when you look at them for little more time... So he suggested, looking at her face... near around her Bindi or top of her hair is a better way.. sometimes fluctuating your eyes from her forehead to hair is what he said is OKAY... He told, some female gender wont like the guy looking into her eyes and talking to her if the time constraint is more... well, Gautam Bhagra had a question here: Wont females feel uncomfortable when you look at her hair :) i mean where are you looking at ?? haha.. he was more concerned :) hahah... Either ways, i feel certain thing depend on the time and situation and the girl / female you are looking at... A female wearing modern fashion dress walking some where will be "The target" for many guys for whatsoever reasons which even the female would have known already but thats "LIFE"....

3 comments:

fred said...

Arun, I think it's more of how you look than where you look... There are lots of differences between when you stare and make a glimpse... There are lots of differences between when your looks are straight and hidden... There are lots of differences between when you give a caring look and a casual look... And so on...

Anonymous said...

I am ready to see a girl from her face to hair only, but what if she think otherwise and underestimate herself ;)

Dr.Kushal said...

As an active Anti Ragging Activist from India, I would like to comment on "Ragging"...

Ragging is a social evil, that has taken several lives and turned many innocent lives upside down.

It has been proved, several times, that Ragging is NOT necessary at all, rather it is a way by which some seniors ( possibly perverts) abuse their juniors.

In India only, at least 31 ragging deaths have been reported between 2000-2007, including the 7 from 2007 alone. Many more have been injured and/or crippled for their lives, while the number of the abused seems to be virtually countless.

As a co-founder of India's first registered Anti Ragging NGO (non profit), which has earned great appreciation from the Government bodies and from the media, I appeal to everyone to stand united against Ragging - an UNnecessary EVIL.

Thanks and Regards,

Dr.K.Banerjee,
www.no2ragging.org