Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Got Hurt ?

         Did you just got hurt? Or ever got hurt? I got hurt many times... but yeah, we move on. I was hurt when i joined macromedia and i had to get started on the work which i didnt know and i had so much pressure on me for the expectations they had on me.  I was hurt when i filled up my BITS application form wrongly once and lost opportunity to get-in at the first semester... I was hurt when i knew i lost my USA - ATE PS opportunity for an year due to one of my professor... What if you get hurt due to actions of some-one whom you think is close to you and you trust the person so much? The pain you will have will be more... What is Trust? Its an opinion on a person one has. What is hatred? Its also an opinion on a person one has. Its very hard to become yourself trusted by some one but it takes just a while to hate a person. I was wondering what could be the reasons... I found a few... Understanding the person wrongly due to some misconception or some-one telling it to you wrongly? Anger? Anger kills your human-ness in a whisker and turns you devil. I always believe, When you like a person and talk to him, how many ever mistakes the other person does, since you like him, you will just correct him and ignore those mistakes. Thats the power of "liking".... It holds all these under one umbrella. But human-attitude has a strange problem. When you get angry, all the power that "liking" had will go in vain in a minute. In a minute, when you are angry on other person, you start re-collecting all the hidden under the umbrella of like things and post them to the person.. you shout at them.. you dig all those hidden things that you stored in you tell it then and there thinking "what the hell who cares".... Some people are really smart. They say that, i dont keep anything in my heart, i am very straight-forward.... whatever i feel i tell it all out-side... bhayya, kya cinema story chal raha hein kya... kat le... Every one is the same. But to a major extent it depends on the situation and the person whom you are dealing with. Recently, i heard from one of the person who trusts me so much that i had been the reason for some disaster mechanisms. I was shocked. At that position, if you have not done the disaster, you dont have a proof to show. How do you convince the person that its not just me, its not just me...  Its just a matter of a second... Once a person feels something bad about another person in his mind, whatever be the case, the hatred will continue to stay in the corner of mind for-ever. Imagine if you were in the position of getting hated by some one whom u thought trust u the most.


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8 comments:

sudharshan said...

Who was it this time buddy.

Arun Kumar Madas said...

nothing on the personal front dude...

Anonymous said...

It hurts.....
Its human nature, that once something goes wrong you have to find someone to blame it on.Its only then that you feel better, coz in a way you have made someone accountable for it, whence earlier it could not be accounted for.....
Just ponder... most of the times the people who make such accusations are directly or indirectly responsible for the disaster as well....in some way they share the responsibility. But the fact that they dont consent to share the blame leads them to shift it in its totality on someone....that someone a scape-goat.
Trust is a mirage. Majority of the times we dont trust ourselves. It is just a feeling of brotherhood, when you feel secure. The moment your security is threatened......trust evaporates or to put it in Potter's vocabulary...APPARATES.

Avinash said...

Dont worry dude... Time is the biggest healer !!

Gautam said...

C'est la vie!

Arun Kumar Madas said...

@anonymous

Thanks for your comments. I realize its a part of life and its inside everyone... the only good thing is to farewell the bitter past and move ahead welcoming the unknown un-packed set of a new days to mould it as you want trying your best not to re-iterate this one bitter day which has spoiled atleast a week of yours..

Arun Kumar Madas said...

@avinash

Dude, thanks.. Yeah, time gives us both pain and pleasure.. Agree, thats the only remedy for all this hassle.

Arun Kumar Madas said...

@gautam

French - C'est la vie (Meaning: It is the life)... Yes, indeed it is !